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我妈妈说要分清“成就”和“成功”的区别。

她说，“成就是你自己通过刻苦学习和工作获得的成果。

成功是别人对你的称赞，听上去很舒服，但是不太重要也无法给你满足感。

追求成就，忘掉成功吧！ – Helen Hayes

太多时候我们追求所谓的“成功”，希望能得到家人，上司的称赞，总是活在别人的期待里，让自己尽量满足别人的要求。

但是很少会思考“自己”到底想要什么，我可以学到什么，我内心深处有什么欲望。

当我们真正追寻内心深处让自己满足、高兴的欲望，我们才能得到平和，变得幸福。

找到那些你真正在意的事情，不管别人的评价和眼神，竭尽全力做吧。

就算在这些事情上你无法成功，你也将会得到最好的礼物-“成就和内心的喜悦”。

My mother drew a distinction between achievement and success.

She said that ‘achievement is the knowledge that you have studied and worked hard and done the best that is in you.

Success is being praised by others, and that’s nice, too, but not as important or satisfying.

Always aim for achievement and forget about success.    – Helen Hayes

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